Who Else Wants the Truth NOW?

No more Lies! I want the Truth NOW!

Do you, like me want the Truth NOW?

Lies are insidious falsehoods that feed off our very Life Blood, from the moment they are said, no matter if we are the victim or perpetrator.

Lies are everywhere, in our own hearts and minds, in the words we utter and even in those we omit. Not saying anything to ‘keep-the-Peace’, is effective yet remain a Lie.

Lies have an unacknowledged but serious effect:

  • Tension is conjured
  • Distrust slowly seeps into the heart
  • The body weakens and becomes sick as it struggles with the weight
  • Energy resources begin to dwindle, it takes effort to maintain
  • They crowd our thinking
  • Lies steal our joy and time

Like a fog, lies descend over the Truth, blanketing it in secrecy and deceit. Only to be uncovered by those who are brave enough to seek the Truth diligently.

Ask yourself “Am I brave enough to face the Truth?”. If your answer is yes, begin by Subscribing, this way you will intermittently receive notification of educational Blog Post like these.

Then do a little introspection; do your reactions to the Truth elicit more of it? Do you know how to keep the flow of honesty going, and perhaps even extract a confession?

I have first hand experience of becoming ‘brave enough’. I have been the perpetrator and the victim, just like everyone else. Living with both Lies and the Truth, is part of growing up. And, hopefully, as we mature we choose the Truth. We develop the courage, yes it takes lots of courage, to speak and act truthfully.

And so it is, I want the Truth Now!

What is Truth, and what is it not?

Truth is fact that is backed by evidence and/or witness.

Truth is not an interpretation, a sense, a suspicion, nor is it and opinion.

We expect Truth to be present in our homes, our work environment. Our relationships should be based on it. Our media and government should respect it. Yet sadly, it is not.

The Hard and Ugly Truth

Truth is seldom easy to express, and still I prefer it over it’s destructive counterpart. With Truth everyone knows what they’re dealing with, an attitude can be adjusted, an opinion amended, suspicion eradicated.

With Truth:

  • Trust can be restored
  • Relationships heal
  • Peace-of-Mind is regained
  • Forgiveness has an open door
  • Co-operation to find a solution is ensured

 

Can you elicit more Truth?
Can you elicit more Truth?
To become the #TruthSeekers

To be #TruthSeekers, our eyes, hearts and minds need to be wide open.

The Truth rings in our ears and tastes sweet, and is light while Lies stink, weigh heavy and are difficult to swallow.

Remember, something that sounds too good to be true, usually is. Here are some tips to Knowing if you are being lied to.

To elicit the Truth you need to remain calm when the information begins to flow. For more guidance here is Our TEACHSHEET, tips to getting someone to tell you the truth…

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Following these tips, a confession is just an interview away.

Alternatively, you could always contact the professionals to Verify the Truth and Detect the Lies.

Want to become part of the #TruthSeekers?

We do what we do, Lie Detecting, because we are #TruthSeekers.

Anyone else feel as strongly as I do about Lies? Who else prefers the Truth?

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Stop Dishing up that Can of Bullshit

If I tell a painful but necessary truth, I take the risk of not being liked, being resented, or worse, rejected. And, most of the time we distort the truth in order to manipulate, and through manipulation we control. Therefore we lie. In other words, dishing up the proverbial can of Bullshit.

Telling the Truth is hard, and we give up control of other people, yet there is incredible power in the truth and is necessary for a fulfilling life.

As easy as Lying is, I say Stop Dishing up that Can of Bullshit!

Let me share with you why you should cease with the Bullshit already!

  • First of all truth allows for change and growth – No change is possible without knowing the truth; I cannot change something in myself if I’m not aware that it is there and needs to be changed.
  • Telling the Truth brings you peace of mind – It speaks of integrity, exposes your deeper values and hence you are a good friend, partner, parent or colleague.
  • Further more telling the Truth is a sign of love – Really caring for friends and family we must be willing to tell them what they don’t want to hear.
  • Truth earns respect – When you consistently tell the truth others will seek you out when needing feedback and listen.
  • Truth creates deeper connections – Telling the truth makes us vulnerable, this will encourage your friends and family to be open their hearts too.

Bullshit free Zone

In Conclusion

Bullshit has a definite fragrance that people can smell when it comes their way.

Truth is power, with it we live in integrity and when we deliver it with love, people won’t get defensive and your consideration will be appreciated.

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Live a life of Honesty

All around us Life is pulsating with inspiration to live a life of Honesty and Truth. It is courageous to live such a life. A Life in the present moment, the here-and-now, rather than distracted by our fears and doubts.

As soon as we succumb to our fears and doubts, Lies easily substitute the Truth – we tell ourselves the first Lie, that the Truth will hurt more. From experience I can tell you that THE TRUTH HURTS LESS – especially in relationships.

I find much Inspiration to live a life of Honesty in music, recently I came across this band:

Harem Scarem:

They are a Canadian hard rock band from TorontoOntario. Harem Scarem achieved popularity in Japan and their native Canada in the early 1990s. The band was active from 1987 to 2008 and again from 2013 after reforming. Throughout their career, they released 13 studio albums, plus numerous live and compilation albums.

Live Life of Honesty

In particular their Song Honestly, had much meaning for me during and after my divorce. In my opinion the meaning of the song is simply about our desire to mend a broken heart, and subsequently having the courage to ask for a second chance.

Here are the Lyrics:

“I stand before you, accused of many crimes
But I want to believe that love can still survive
You don’t have to say it, I don’t have to read your mind
To know the emptiness that’s finally arrived
How was I, to know the right from wrong
Words were hardly spoken, so where did I go wrong?
Tell me honestly, if you’re still loving me
Looking into my eyes, honestly
Words have more meaning, if they’re said at certain times
I need you now so I can feel alive
How would you know it, you wont give me sometime
To see if everything could work out, and you’d be mine
Oh, will love be lost forever or someday I may find
The words that I’ve been searching for
Are just some peace of mind…
Tell me honestly, if you’re still loving me
Looking into my eyes, honestly…
All the night I sit and wonder
Must be more to laugh, I’m sure that
Days and years gone by while I am
Living with the…
Oh, lonely feeling”

What meaning does it have for you?

 

Reference: History of Harem Scarem, YouTube Clip, Lyrics of Honestly

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The Truth in Half the Time

Getting to the Truth in half the time means we have to Be Truthful all the time. It takes practice and courage. Anything other than the truth is lying.

Getting to the Truth in half the Time means we have to Be Truthful all the Time.

Being truthful ourselves takes practice and courage. This is the only way to get to the Truth.

Dishonesty comes in many shapes and sizes. There are lies we tell in error while others are brazen and  bold-faced, in addition, there are white lies, those we believe will protect loved ones, but actually protect ourselves.

Still it’s all lying just the same.

Get to the Truth Half the Time
Being honest takes practice and courage

Identifying a Lie

The ‘shapes’ and ‘sizes’ of Lies are mostly forms of dishonesty that masquerade as acceptable behavior, such as:

  • Misrepresentation – Spinning a story, representing opinion as fact
  • Omission – deliberately leaving out key information
  • Fabrication – spreading gossip or rumor
  • Exaggeration – stretching reality
  • Denial – Refusing to accept responsibility

Being Truthful

Any way you cut it, when we distort the truth, we put our credibility at risk, while lowering our personal standards of honesty. Remember, BIG or small….. a lie is a lie. Furthermore a lie repeated many times doesn’t change the truth. Additionally one or many believers don’t determine the truth or untruth.

There is no excuse for dishonesty. NONE. As someone once said, “The truth doesn’t cost anything, but a lie could cost you everything.”

The value of honesty cannot be overstated. When you stand for honesty, you believe in yourself and everything you represent. When you stand for honesty everything you say carries the voice of credibility.

Get to the Truth in Half the Time:

  • Think before you speak
  • Say what you mean and mean what you say
  • Bend over backward to communicate in an open and honest fashion
  • Simplify your statements so that everyone clearly understands your message
  • Tell it like it is

The truth shouldn’t be told only when it is convenient, rather, honesty must be a way of life. Honesty means that you care deeply about trust, cherish your relationships, and value the importance of a solid reputation.

Honesty means that you try to do your best and are willing to accept the consequences of your actions.

In conclusion, Honesty means that you respect others enough to tell them the truth and that you value your opinion of yourself enough to never live a lie. As the saying goes, “It’s simple. Never lie to someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who lies to you.” That’s why it’s critical to always tell the truth — or the truth will tell on you. Honest.

Sources & Citations: Frank Sonnenberg

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Understanding How Lie Detecting Works

Our minds being as creative as they are, can conjure up some really amazing stories; In regard to Truth Verification this is very helpful indeed! What Detection of Deception relies on however is the relationship between MIND & BODY.

Huh? How does this Work?

While the MIND can lie, the BODY cannot!

How does this Work?

Our minds being as creative as they are, can conjure up some really amazing stories. In regard to Truth Verification this is the Cornerstone!

What Detection of Deception relies on is the relationship between MIND & BODY.

Through the Autonomous Nervous System the BODY is able to respond to mental images of the MIND – then the BODY responds with feelings.

Feelings are the subtle, visceral sensations passing through the physiology and biology triggered by hormonal/chemical release from the Neurology.

This originally was action-ed by the thoughts passing through the mind.

How again?

The Autonomous Nervous System’s (ANS) job is to either activate or relax the body. When mind and body is congruent the BODY is relaxed.

However, when the mind lies the ANS will activate the body. This system is so sensitive that even the slightest non-truth passing through our imagination, has the result of many subtle sensations being experienced in the body.

So, does it Work?

A lie in thought and made real by words activates the body in such a way that these reactions to in-congruence, can be measured.

YES, it Works!!

Does it Work?

POLYGRAPH measures;

  • Cardiovascular
  • Electrodermal
  • Respiratory changes in the body.

VOICE STRESS ANALYSIS with AVSAPRO records change in the voice.

For both methodologies the data captured is used to offer a result.

  • No Deception Indicated (NDI)
  • Deception Indicated (DI)
  • Inconclusive

Remember, Neither result confirms the subject did, or did not commit the act – results only indicate a reaction to the questions asked; did their body, or did their body not, react when answering the relevant questions.